Why is it?????

[Straight Up]

Why is it that everytime I'm in a good mood my wife ends up ****ed????

Am I the only one with this problem??

[Centurion44]

Why is it that everytime I'm in a good mood my wife ends up ****ed????

Am I the only one with this problem??

Because they can't stand to see men happy. The trick is to always act miserable around them.

[Straight Up]

Because they can't stand to see men happy.

Yea..... Chapter 1 of that secret hand book that they carry.

Chapter 2 ... What to do if they look comfortable.

Chapter 3 ... When to invite the in-laws.

Oh Well!!!!

[Ninjagirl]

Why is it that everytime I'm in a good mood my wife ends up ****ed????

Am I the only one with this problem??

ooo ooo i swear i know the answer to this one...i was married for 10 years!! We get ****ed when we see you are happy because you dont even feel any remorse over [leaving the toilet seat up etc] last month you [email protected]!

[Migraman]

Just remember, "your right" and "I'm sorry".

It doesn't matter that you have no idea what you did. "your right" and "I'm sorry". Trust me, its easier this way. Don't try to understand or rationalize it, just go with it.

[Welpe]

Just remember, "your right" and "I'm sorry".

It doesn't matter that you have no idea what you did. "your right" and "I'm sorry". Trust me, its easier this way. Don't try to understand or rationalize it, just go with it.

After dating someone for almost six years (still going too), yes I agree.

[Ninjagirl]

After dating someone for almost six years (still going too), yes I agree.

ha! I figured this one out as well. My ex could get a 'get out of jail free card' IF he could tell me ACURATELY what he had done wrong, why it was wrong and then give a sincere appology...........hmmm, divorced....................maybe not the best advice giver huh?......

[Straight Up]

My ex could get a 'get out of jail free card' IF he could tell me ACURATELY what he had done wrong, why it was wrong and then give a sincere appology...........hmmm,

Sounds like another case of ... "If you don't know, I'm not telling you".

Damnnnnnn What is a guy supposed to do with this??? We know nothing.
We think with the little head and it's got a one track mind.

OK so it's .... "Your right"..."I'm sorry"

Actually it's...."What the hell and if I'm sorry I don't know what the **** for.

[Migraman]

ha! I figured this one out as well. My ex could get a 'get out of jail free card' IF he could tell me ACURATELY what he had done wrong, why it was wrong and then give a sincere appology...........hmmm, divorced....................maybe not the best advice giver huh?......

Thats not fair, your playing out of bounds.

[LovnTheFuzz]

What a bunch of ridiculous games.

When he was miserable/unhappy - SO WAS I.
When he was happy - SO WAS I.

That is how it should be.

Makes me reallllly happy i was raised only by my father - i don't do all that stupid crap, and i certainly don't expect it done to me.

[Welpe]

That is refreshing to read, Amber. Fortunately my girlfriend (nearly common-law wife I suppose ) takes that attitude most of the time. Sometimes she does get really mad at me and leaves me to figure out why...

[Straight Up]

What a bunch of ridiculous games.

When he was miserable/unhappy - SO WAS I.
When he was happy - SO WAS I.

That is how it should be.

Makes me reallllly happy i was raised only by my father - i don't do all that stupid crap, and i certainly don't expect it done to me.

Thats right, thats how it should be.

We have been married almost twenty two years and we still have fun. Thats why I started this thread. to have fun with my wife.

Our life style requires us to live in an eight by six box, twenty four / seven most of the time, you have to have a sense of humor to survive, and you have to find ways to spice up the everyday hum drum.

She has her chat room and I have mine
mines better

[LovnTheFuzz]

Welpe - I know a lot of women that do that same thing... but much worse. "I'm mad at him, and HE doesn't know why!" Then you get the silent treatment for God only knows how long while you try to figure it out. I'm glad to hear that your g/f doesn't take that attitude for the most part

Communication breakdown is the #1 reason for relationship failure!
These 'games' are communication games. 'Guess why i'm mad' 'Guess why i'm not talking to you' 'Guess why we haven't had sex for _____'



Straight Up - 22 years.. WOW. Congratulations - it sounds like you two are still solid.

I wanted to comment that many of these 'games' are stereotypical relationship behaviors in/with women because they are in fact common. I have no idea where they come from, or how they evolve... but would hazard to guess they are learned from the Mother, and from society. Sex is power afterall, no?

What is obvious to me that in any degree, it's an effective tool of manipulation.

[Welpe]

I admit, I don't give up pestering her when she acts like that. She finally gives in and will tell me...usually leading to a fight, but hey, we are communicating at least...

[zap]

What a bunch of ridiculous games.

When he was miserable/unhappy - SO WAS I.
When he was happy - SO WAS I.

That is how it should be.

Makes me reallllly happy i was raised only by my father - i don't do all that stupid crap, and i certainly don't expect it done to me.

wow...what planet are you from? Definately not Venus like all the others!!

What was that joke....

Why is divorce so expensive??


CAUSE IT'S WORTH IT!!