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  • Ex-Marine, veterans' advocate kills himself

    This is not directly LE-related, but indirectly so, since so many on these forums are/were in the U.S. Military.

    This is such a tragic story. Hopefully Cpl. Hunt will find a tranquility in death that eluded him in life.

    RIP, Sir.


    http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/42609114...ife/?GT1=43001

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    Handsome and friendly, Clay Hunt so epitomized a vibrant Iraq veteran that he was chosen for a public service announcement that told veterans that they aren't alone.

    The 28-year-old former Marine corporal earned a Purple Heart after taking a sniper's bullet in his left wrist. He returned to combat in Afghanistan. Upon his return home, he lobbied for veterans on Capitol Hill, road-biked with wounded veterans and performed humanitarian work in Haiti and Chile.

    Then, on March 31, Hunt bolted himself in his Houston apartment and shot himself.

    Friends and family say he was wracked with survivor's guilt, depression and other emotional struggles after combat.

    Hunt's death has shaken many veterans who served in Iraq and Afghanistan. Those who knew him wonder why someone who seemed to be doing all the right things to deal with combat-related issues is now dead.

    "We know we have a problem with vets' suicides, but this was really a slap in the face," said Matthew Pelak, 32, an Iraq veteran who worked with Hunt in Haiti as part of the nonprofit group Team Rubicon.

    After news of Hunt's death spread, workers from the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors met with veterans visiting Washington for the annual lobbying effort by the nonprofit Iraq and Afghanistan Veterans, or IAVA. A year earlier, Hunt had been with other veterans in dark suits calling on Congress to improve the disability claims process.

    He had appeared in the group's ads encouraging veterans to seek support from an online network of fellow veterans.

    Snapshots posted on Facebook reflect a mostly grinning Hunt. In one, he has a beard and is surrounded by Haitian kids. A second shows him on the Capitol steps with fellow veterans. There's a shot of him from the back on a bike using his right arm to help push another bicyclist who is helping to guide an amputee in a specially modified bike.

    Friends and family say Hunt suffered from depression and post-traumatic stress disorder. But with his boundless energy and countless friends, he came across as an example of how to live life after combat.

    "I think everybody saw him as the guy that was battling it, but winning the battle every day," said Jacob Wood, 27, a friend who served with Hunt in the Marines and in Haiti with Team Rubicon.

    But some knew he was grieving over several close friends in the Marines who were killed in Iraq and Afghanistan.

    "He was very despondent about why he was alive and so many people he served with directly were not alive," said John Wordin, 48, the founder of Ride 2 Recovery, a program that uses bicycling to help veterans heal physically and mentally.

    “We certainly feel that Clay led an exemplary life, and that this post-traumatic stress disorder just caught up with him,” said his parents, Susan Selke and Stacy Hunt, in an interview Friday with msnbc's Thomas Roberts.

    In 2007, while in Iraq with the Marine's 2nd Battalion, 7th Regiment, Hunt heard over the radio that his 20-year-old bunkmate had died in a roadside bombing. Hunt later wrote online about sleeping in his bunkmate's bed. "I just wanted to be closer to him, I guess. But I couldn't — he was gone."

    A month later, Hunt was pinned by enemy fire in his truck as a fellow Marine, shot in the throat by a sniper, lay nearby. Hunt wrote that seeing his friend placed in a helicopter, where he died, is "a scene that plays on repeat in my head nearly every day, and most nights as well."

    Three days later, a sniper's bullet missed Hunt's head by inches and hit his wrist. He didn't immediately leave Iraq. His parents say Hunt asked to fly to a military hospital in Germany a day later so he could accompany a fellow Marine who was shot in both legs.

    "I know he's seen some traumatic stuff in his time and I guess he holds that to himself," said Marine Sgt. Oscar Garza, 26, who served with Hunt in Iraq. "He was a very compassionate Marine, a very passionate person, one of the few people that I know that has a big heart and feels a lot of people's pain and makes it his own."

    Hunt's mother Susan said after he was wounded, she'd hoped her son would get out of the military. Instead, he went to school to be a scout-sniper and went to Afghanistan. He seemed to do well. He was honorably discharged in 2009, married and enrolled at Loyola Marymount University in Los Angeles.

    Hunt's friends say he was an idealist and voiced frustration that he couldn't make changes overnight. He also questioned why troops were still dying.

    "He really was looking for someone to tell him what it was he went over to do and why those sacrifices were made," Wood said.

    Last year, Hunt's life took a downward spiral. His marriage ended, he dropped out of school and he began to have suicidal thoughts, his mother said. She said Hunt sought counseling from the VA and moved in temporarily with Wordin in California.

    Things seemed to improve for Hunt in recent months after he returned to his hometown of Houston to be near family.

    He got a construction job, leased an apartment, bought a truck and began dating. He called friends to discuss the possibility of re-enlisting. In the days before he died, he hung out with friends, and he had plans the following weekend to do a Ride 2 Recovery bike ride. He even told Garza he couldn't wait to see him at a Fourth of July reunion with other Marines.

    Then he was dead.

    "Clay was always a fighter," Wordin said. "He was always a guy to stick things out and he basically quit life, and I was mad that he felt he had to do that at that particular time."

    Hunt's friends and family count him a casualty of war — just like his buddies who died in the battlefield.
    “Let him go, Lou. Someone driving that fast has no time for a ticket.”
    -Chief Wiggum

  • #2
    There are so many deaths to keep up with....from the wars and even within our police departments across the country.....that I pretty much stopped replying to individual announcements.... since if I couldn't do them all, I didn't want to be selective. But this one is particularly heartbreaking because of the impact it will have on the many that looked to him as an example of how to survive PTSD. RIP Cpl Hunt. You will be missed.

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    • #3
      Just heartbreaking, especially when you know that much of his debt was incurred waiting for his VA benifits
      Molly Weasley makes Chuck Norris eat his vegetables.

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      • #4
        Another Bro gone by his own hand.

        I,... I don't get it.

        M-11
        “All men dream...... But not equally..
        Those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds wake in the day to find it is vanity;
        but the dreamers of the day are dangerous men,
        for they act their dreams with open eyes to make it possible.....”

        TE Lawrence

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        • #5
          I am reminded of this quote from St. Marcarius, c. 391

          The heart is but a small vessel and yet dragons and lions are there, and there poisonous creatures and all the treasures of wickedness; rough uneven places are there, and gaping chasms. There likewise is God, there are the angels, there life and the Kingdom, the light and the apostles… all things are there.

          Rest in peace, Cpl. Hunt.
          We do not all come to religion over the wandering years,
          but sooner or later we all get to meet God. -- Edward Conlon

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          • #6
            Originally posted by M-11 View Post
            Another Bro gone by his own hand.

            I,... I don't get it.

            M-11
            I do get it...but I wish I didn't. It's a part of my job, but every loss just tears out a piece of my soul.

            Often the most painful scars are the ones you can't see.
            "Son, you are a walkin' violation of the laws of nature...But we don't enforce them laws."

            I am just a country boy tryin' to make some sense
            But I'd like to ask the Congress, I'd like to ask the President
            "Can ya tell me where all the money went?"
            We might not be broke but we're badly bent!


            The Tractors -- "Badly Bent" from the album Owner's Manual

            "Common sense. So rare, it should be a super power." Exodus 259

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            • #7
              Originally posted by EmmaPeel View Post
              There are so many deaths to keep up with....from the wars and even within our police departments across the country.....that I pretty much stopped replying to individual announcements.... since if I couldn't do them all, I didn't want to be selective. But this one is particularly heartbreaking because of the impact it will have on the many that looked to him as an example of how to survive PTSD. RIP Cpl Hunt. You will be missed.
              This one hit home for me too. My cousin was Marine Recon in Nam. He lost friends literally right and left of him in a firefight. Discharged at home his wife left him and he took to drink. His brother found him and has just now started talking to me about it.

              Prayers for all.

              OA12
              Pete Malloy, "The only thing black and white about this job is the car."

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              • #8
                Rest In Peace Marine................

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