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  • #76
    Originally posted by BaseballBabe View Post
    But I need to know that the "future" Mr. Baseball will be the one for me. He has to be a baseball fan ....please no Yankee fans.
    I know a Royals fan that is still waiting for you......

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    • #77
      Originally posted by Buttercup View Post
      Saying "fault" indicates that there's something wrong, JB. There's nothing at all wrong, you've made the choice that's best for the priorities that you want in your life. That's taking control of your life. There's not a thing wrong with that.
      Yeah, i guess "fault" is not a good word, it really is "choice." But the problem is, the times that i'm wishing i had somebody to go eat at a nice restaurant with, or take a long, quiet ride somewhere with - i "blame" myself for NOT wanting to date. But i really dont want to!! Confused? I know i am The other problem is, most of the time i WANT to be alone. So its a F-d up situation. My one sister is the same way...she's been seeing her b/f for around 17 years, and they live in seperate houses and only see each other on weekends and holidays (no hes not married!). She loves it that way.

      CK, that is really cool that your husband said that about marriage while you were dating. Sure would make it easier...because i KNOW i dont want marriage lol.

      As for being a special situation, i think i am that, too. I've been alone for around 8 years, and i've been independant for a while, even before that when i was with my last b/f. I'm not real needy, and i find that guys like to be able to take care of someone. But i dont try to act like i know it all, or never need help, so who knows...and even tho my first marriage ended, i am very glad to have experienced it, and i wouldnt give back the years i had with my ex-, even the bad ones. It doesnt always have to be "forever" to be a great love.

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      • #78
        Thanks again everyone


        You know it's just the simple things in life I miss really. You fill in the blanks on that one.
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        • #79
          For what it's worth, here's a good link to find out what volunteer opportunities exist in your area. Some things require just a day or a few hours, others are more long term.


          http://www.volunteermatch.org/
          All human actions have one or more of these seven causes: chance, nature, compulsions, habit, reason, passion and desire.

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          • #80
            Brother man,
            I hate to be harsh, but, your "VIOLENCE RULES THE DAY" and the flag with "NOW SPEAK ENGLISH" slogans says a lot about you and what you project. With that, it's not real hard to figure out why your having a hard time meeting, and definatly keeping, a quality woman, or any woman for that matter. I would say don't take it personnelly, but damn, what are you thinking. My last names Gonzalez, I've been married 8 years, 2 yr. old twins, 3yr. old twins. It's all gravy baby. Oh yeah, I don't speak spanish, but if I did it would be worth another 5% pay increase. Sh_t, I think I'm going to work on it.
            "Will to Protect....Courage to Fight"

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            • #81
              Originally posted by ftgolfer View Post
              Brother man,
              I hate to be harsh, but, your "VIOLENCE RULES THE DAY" and the flag with "NOW SPEAK ENGLISH" slogans says a lot about you and what you project. With that, it's not real hard to figure out why your having a hard time meeting, and definatly keeping, a quality woman, or any woman for that matter. I would say don't take it personnelly, but damn, what are you thinking. .


              What am I thinking about what???

              VRTD was our training slogan thru the academy.

              The flag is what it is and I believe it,it's no different if I moved somewhere with a foreign language,then I WOULD learn the language.

              Actually you are entirely wrong in your perception but that is ok
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              • #82
                Bro,
                My perception is based on what you're projecting. I feel the same way sometimes. When a cashier can't understand english and looks at me as though I'm out of place. I get that, but, to put it out there as a first impression isn't the best way to meet quality people. I will also tell you, Most intelligent people would consider it to be a racially biased statement. As a LEO, especially a FED, not to mention a "behavior specialist", I would think you would get that. If you were a kid, I would get it, but your a 36 yr. old FEDERAL LEO. It's statements and behavior of that nature that have civilians thinking ALL cops suck, when in reality, it's just a small minority.
                If I'm getting you all wrong, I apologize. I guess my first post was a little degrading and confrontational, sorry. But please, help me understand how having that kind of stuff on your posting/email/avatar could possibly be beneficial to you or help you meet QUALITY people.
                "Will to Protect....Courage to Fight"

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                • #83
                  Originally posted by ftgolfer View Post
                  Bro, If I'm getting you all wrong, I apologize. I guess my first post was a little degrading and confrontational, sorry. But please, help me understand how having that kind of stuff on your posting/email/avatar could possibly be beneficial to you or help you meet QUALITY people.
                  Your're getting him all wrong......so why do you even bother posting in this thread....?

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                  • #84
                    Because in the United States healthy debate is the way people come to conclusions and /or agree to disagree. Like I said, if I'm getting it all wrong, I apologize. I don't understand what your trying to say by your comment. If in fact my perception is off, we shouldn't discuss it and help me understand better what it is he's conveying. I should just be cut off and silenced(why I bother threading here)?. For some reason, without looking, I'm going to say you're probably a FED as well. Trying to control people's comments and actions(who threads where) has always been their MO. I'm sure GPOC can defend his own statments. Now, if you had something to offer to the discussion, I welcome it. But, to make a comment, suggest I leave, and take off. That's chickens__t ***Hey, are you his partner, was that back up. If so, my bad, keep up the good work.
                    Last edited by ftgolfer; 05-13-2007, 04:34 PM.
                    "Will to Protect....Courage to Fight"

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                    • #85
                      Originally posted by ftgolfer View Post
                      Bro,
                      I will also tell you, Most intelligent people would consider it to be a racially biased statement. As a LEO, especially a FED, not to mention a "behavior specialist", Not even remotely close to being a racist statement

                      . It's statements and behavior of that nature that have civilians thinking ALL cops suck, when in reality, it's just a small minority.This has nothing to do with being a cop at all. I treat everyone equally and yes I deal with many that have a language barrier


                      If I'm getting you all wrong, I apologize.Apology not needed at all


                      . But please, help me understand how having that kind of stuff on your posting/email/avatar could possibly be beneficial to you or help you meet QUALITY people.Well I am not on here to neccesarily meet people so that doesn't matter at all to me. I stand by what it says



                      I think people that come here should attempt to better themselves by learning the official language of the USA which is ENGLISH period. Like I said earlier,if I moved to Mexico or wherever you bet your *** that would be required of me to learn it and I would to better myself.

                      To come here and not try is unacceptable in my OPINION.

                      You say my avatar can be construed as racist and I disagree but maybe you are the type that claims every little injustice or wrong is based on race and not the action that happened.

                      That would be generalizing you as you have already done to me.

                      Should one hide their beliefs? Personally I don't see the issue with my avatar. I think people should try to better themselves then just being plain lazy and thinking I should accomadate them instead.



                      Anyway,it's all good.If you want to continue the debate start a new thread so this one doesn't get hijacked
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                      • #86
                        Originally posted by ftgolfer View Post
                        I'm sure GPOC can defend his own statments.
                        He did....see above.....

                        Originally posted by ftgolfer View Post
                        Now, if you had something to offer to the discussion, I welcome it. But, to make a comment, suggest I leave, and take off. That's chickens__t ***
                        You had nothing to offer to this thread....other than to run your mouth......and spout off crap you "think" about him....though you have no idea about who he is.......go back to your hole....

                        Originally posted by ftgolfer View Post
                        Hey, are you his partner, was that back up. If so, my bad, keep up the good work.
                        Not his partner....but friend who was ticked that you ran your mouth about him and didn't have anything good to say about him.....when I (and most folks on here that have more than 10 posts) know that he's a good guy.......

                        Does the phrase "Read more, post less" mean anything to you...?

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                        • #87
                          Originally posted by Bearcat357 View Post
                          I know a Royals fan that is still waiting for you......
                          I know.... sorry no pictures yet.
                          "A life is not important except in the impact it has on other lives." - Jackie Robinson


                          *UPDATED* Visited: 14 (Arizona Diamondbacks, L.A. Dodgers, L.A. Angels, S.D. Padres,Atlanta Braves, Tampa Bay Rays, Florida Marlins, N.Y. Yankees, N.Y. Mets, Boston Red Soxs, Washington Nationals,Seattle Mariners,Oakland A's and the S.F. Giants.)
                          Not Yet Visited: 16
                          Baseball Hall of Fame- Visited

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                          • #88
                            Originally posted by BaseballBabe View Post
                            I know.... sorry no pictures yet.
                            Sorry we beat your A's tonight.....but it was a good game......

                            Your killing me with the no pics....perhaps I need to come visit and take my own...?

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                            • #89
                              Originally posted by Bearcat357 View Post
                              Sorry we beat your A's tonight.....but it was a good game......

                              Your killing me with the no pics....perhaps I need to come visit and take my own...?

                              Yes, don't remind me about last nights game.


                              Perhaps you should.
                              "A life is not important except in the impact it has on other lives." - Jackie Robinson


                              *UPDATED* Visited: 14 (Arizona Diamondbacks, L.A. Dodgers, L.A. Angels, S.D. Padres,Atlanta Braves, Tampa Bay Rays, Florida Marlins, N.Y. Yankees, N.Y. Mets, Boston Red Soxs, Washington Nationals,Seattle Mariners,Oakland A's and the S.F. Giants.)
                              Not Yet Visited: 16
                              Baseball Hall of Fame- Visited

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                              • #90
                                Originally posted by BaseballBabe View Post
                                Yes, don't remind me about last nights game.


                                Perhaps you should.

                                It won't last....as you'all will end up beating us to sweep the series....as we are that bad. We do get lucky on occasion though.....

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