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  • #61
    sasdly, I think she is cheating also. most of the signs are there.

    The male/female appraoch as suggested was good, it give you both a place where you can vent, talk openly and then come togteher with completed thoughts ans plans of actions. But like noted, the counselors will get paid and if its by the employer, the notes can be taken. just keep that in mind.

    I also like the idea of working with someone with experince in LEO families. They are truly unique.

    Be good to yourself, she is the one acting out, and feeling guilty. Notice she is the one hiding things and blaming you.....I never knew a person to accuse the other of cheating, and its not thier guilt eating them.

    sadly, unless she gives up the phone, and allows you or another to speak ti this person....its cheating.

    ‘Some cause happiness wherever they go; others, whenever they go.’
    Oscar Wilde

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    • #62
      Sorry about any confusion.

      Let me explain I am a 14 year veteran of the Army. The counseling will come free through the Department of Veterans Affairs.
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      "In the fields of observation chance favors only prepared mind"
      -----Louis Pasteur

      "Sweat in training saves blood on the battlefield."

      -------Col. David "Hack" Hackworth

      On my 7 year old 2nd Grade Class wall

      ------------YOU are RESPONSIBLE for YOUR OWN ACTIONS

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      • #63
        oooooooooh gotta love the VA sheesh! Good luck getting your appointments straight. The shrinkers at those places have to be the worst with appointments and showing up for work.
        "That boys cheese dun slid off his cracker!"

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        • #64
          Originally posted by DryWater
          What he said^^

          I can only say like we did in the military, hope for the best and plan for the worst.
          Psst.....I'm a girl!
          Your mom...

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          • #65
            Originally posted by Christyle
            Psst.....I'm a girl!
            Sorry, my mistake

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            • #66
              Originally posted by DryWater
              Sorry, my mistake
              Hahaha that is quite alright!
              Your mom...

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              • #67
                Yes Yes she is cheating. The fact that she wouldnt say who was on the phone is a dead ringer. Along with the other cell phone. Don't put this on yourself. She should have been women enough to end your relationship if she was going to start seeing someone. Thats on her there is no reason to cheat at all. no excuses . Sorry you had to go through with that. My advise is confront her. Then talk and seek divorce why because she is lurking around outside of your relationship and chances are she isnt going to stop. You owe it to yourself.
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