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sasdly, I think she is cheating also. most of the signs are there.
The male/female appraoch as suggested was good, it give you both a place where you can vent, talk openly and then come togteher with completed thoughts ans plans of actions. But like noted, the counselors will get paid and if its by the employer, the notes can be taken. just keep that in mind.
I also like the idea of working with someone with experince in LEO families. They are truly unique.
Be good to yourself, she is the one acting out, and feeling guilty. Notice she is the one hiding things and blaming you.....I never knew a person to accuse the other of cheating, and its not thier guilt eating them.
sadly, unless she gives up the phone, and allows you or another to speak ti this person....its cheating.
The male/female appraoch as suggested was good, it give you both a place where you can vent, talk openly and then come togteher with completed thoughts ans plans of actions. But like noted, the counselors will get paid and if its by the employer, the notes can be taken. just keep that in mind.
I also like the idea of working with someone with experince in LEO families. They are truly unique.
Be good to yourself, she is the one acting out, and feeling guilty. Notice she is the one hiding things and blaming you.....I never knew a person to accuse the other of cheating, and its not thier guilt eating them.
sadly, unless she gives up the phone, and allows you or another to speak ti this person....its cheating.
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