Divorce SUCKS!!!

[DH2002]

Well its been 5 months since my STBX said she didnt love me anymore and 2 months since I moved out and we decided to divorce and it has been the worst time ever, to make matters worse our anniversary was in Aug so that sucks even more. Please tell me it gets better.

[AlmostaLEO]

It gets better, bro. It really does. Hang in there.

[az4code23]

Yea, it sucks. Wait til you have to give her half of EVERYTHING! Including spousal support! But hang in there, it's been a little over a year for me, and sometimes it still eats me up inside sometimes, but I found someone new.

[deputy x 2]

You're in the process of healing.....things will get better. Look forward..the final chapter is almost over.

[codemanski]

DH2002,

Been there...done that...got the t-shirt!!!! I agree with az4code23...you WILL be fine! It does take time, and for the first year or so, you feel like you're at fault. You need to forgive your ex, forgive the circumstances, and above all, forgive yourself. Only then will the healing start. I still have my old wedding ring and the bullet I almost wasted on myself as a reminder of what almost was! Now, I am re-married, raising two really great grandkids, and have found (what I think) is the best relationship of my life! It only took me two marriages and 53 years...but someone DID have a plan for me, and I thank Him every day for what I have been blessed with. May sound "sappy"...but it's a truth my brother!
Codeman

[brn2reign]

this is for you DH2002:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oiiFTb3p2I0



Good luck!

[BaseballBabe]

It will get better just like everyone else has said. Takes time.......

[k91king3]

It does get better. Trust me. I am at a year now of being seperated and going through the actual divorce now. (MD requires 1 year seperation) It gets much easier once you get past the 6 month mark you'll see. Hang in there.

[TexasAggieOfc]

Just remember why divorce is so expensive...


It's worth it!


Hang in there, it gets better in the end!

[grumpyirishman]

Happily Divorced since 1988

The first couple years were rough...but boy do I enjoy being single now...

[SCSO612]

Nobody every died from divorce. Well, unless you're the one petitioning for divorce, and your soon-to-be-ex is a psycho blood-thirsty serial killer. Anyway, I almost ended in divorce once. It's a crappy period. But life will go on. Focus on what you have that makes YOU who YOU are. Make yourself happy. The rest will fall into place! Good luck!

[Tribe]

Been there done that it reallllllllllyyyyyy gets better. First year is the hardest, second year is bliss. Been 5 plus for me and now i've been remarried for 1 year and expecting my first. trust me looking back i wish i had gotton divorce sooner.

[MPDCjock]

It gets better. You deserve better than to be with someone that doesn't love you. Like others said, it'll be about a year before you'll feel completely better. Once you get away from your ex and get some air you'll feel better.

Keep your head up, take care of yourself and meet new people!

[Blind Justice]

I myself am still waiting for it to "get better". I am now 5 months into the divorce process and it still eats away at me.

She has since moved back to California and is insistent on dragging this out for as long as possible, just to be spiteful.

It has begun to to ease up a bit, but still a hard pill to swallow.

Good luck brother. Just remember you've got the worlds largest support group at your disposal.

[rubyrose]

Hang in there. There will come a time when you'll hardly remember this time in your life because your life will be better than it ever was during your marriage.

If you have kids the emotional turmoil will last longer. But eventually they grow up!