Good morning,
This will be a quite lengthy post. I want you to have the full picture before you cast your judgements and opinions. I will firstly start by stating I respect the opinions you all share. Okay lets crack right into it.
A marine vet with a clean DD214/ Honorable discharge. Joined the marines to get experience for public service. I was torn between fire and police. After I got out of the marines I completed a wildlands fire season, and finished a fire academy/EMT school. The academy taught me a lot, and enjoyed a large majority of the work. Although I still want to go after a career in law enforcement, and later down the road work in arson investigation. I have applied for the Seattle Police Department where my standings after the exam is 11 out of 153 for applicants. I have the next two steps scheduled which include the PAT exam, in-person background investigation, and oral boards. The PAT I will be fine. That doesn't concern me one bit, but the background investigation does. In fact its the reason why I'm sitting down typing this out currently.
In December 2016, I made the biggest mistake I have ever made, and it still haunts me to this day. The girl that I was dating and I got into an argument, and there was Alcohol involved, and I was charged with 13-1203A1 Mis DV Assa. and 13-Z904A Disordely. I ****ed up royally, but I took it upon myself to get counseling and work with the VA. The charges were dismissed by the judge, and I got the help I needed. It will never happen again. I got out of that relationship, and moved. Although for some reason I went back to online dating with tinder, and landed myself in another situation. No arrests/ no charges. I was dating a CPS agent out of nashville in early 2019, and she was heavy into drugs to cope with the job. I told her she needed to get her act together or I was going to report her, and she put an OP on me. Funny how that worked... Look I put myself in that position. I should of walked the **** away. Not my job to counsel her. I know better know. I have completely stopped the online dating.
After I ditched the online dating I actually met my current fiancé, she has her life put together. She is a cardiologist. Life is ****ing great. I am wondering what my likelihood is with those two incidents on my record. I feel completely embarrassed by them both, and I have learned a lot from them both... the hard way. I have never had performance issues at work. Never had any tardiness issues at work. Hell I havent been written up at work since I was 19. My credit score is so/so its nothing impressive but its nothing where I have to be worried about. I think that I have less than 1350 in debt. The only thing that concerns me is the DV charge/dismissal.
Alright ladies and gents. That's all I got.
This will be a quite lengthy post. I want you to have the full picture before you cast your judgements and opinions. I will firstly start by stating I respect the opinions you all share. Okay lets crack right into it.
A marine vet with a clean DD214/ Honorable discharge. Joined the marines to get experience for public service. I was torn between fire and police. After I got out of the marines I completed a wildlands fire season, and finished a fire academy/EMT school. The academy taught me a lot, and enjoyed a large majority of the work. Although I still want to go after a career in law enforcement, and later down the road work in arson investigation. I have applied for the Seattle Police Department where my standings after the exam is 11 out of 153 for applicants. I have the next two steps scheduled which include the PAT exam, in-person background investigation, and oral boards. The PAT I will be fine. That doesn't concern me one bit, but the background investigation does. In fact its the reason why I'm sitting down typing this out currently.
In December 2016, I made the biggest mistake I have ever made, and it still haunts me to this day. The girl that I was dating and I got into an argument, and there was Alcohol involved, and I was charged with 13-1203A1 Mis DV Assa. and 13-Z904A Disordely. I ****ed up royally, but I took it upon myself to get counseling and work with the VA. The charges were dismissed by the judge, and I got the help I needed. It will never happen again. I got out of that relationship, and moved. Although for some reason I went back to online dating with tinder, and landed myself in another situation. No arrests/ no charges. I was dating a CPS agent out of nashville in early 2019, and she was heavy into drugs to cope with the job. I told her she needed to get her act together or I was going to report her, and she put an OP on me. Funny how that worked... Look I put myself in that position. I should of walked the **** away. Not my job to counsel her. I know better know. I have completely stopped the online dating.
After I ditched the online dating I actually met my current fiancé, she has her life put together. She is a cardiologist. Life is ****ing great. I am wondering what my likelihood is with those two incidents on my record. I feel completely embarrassed by them both, and I have learned a lot from them both... the hard way. I have never had performance issues at work. Never had any tardiness issues at work. Hell I havent been written up at work since I was 19. My credit score is so/so its nothing impressive but its nothing where I have to be worried about. I think that I have less than 1350 in debt. The only thing that concerns me is the DV charge/dismissal.
Alright ladies and gents. That's all I got.
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