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    hello, i'm currently in college and in about one year i will graduate and i will try to became a cop..
    the problem is that i'm dating this guy and we are looking forward to move in together , but he smokes weed, he never smokes in front of me or have it when he is with me, he knows he could get me in trouble...
    my question is... how would this affect me?
    does moving together would be bad?

  • #2
    Have to make a choice between a career and your bf.

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      thanks, I choose my career

  • #3
    Find another boyfriend, or find another line of work.

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      thanks, I choose my career

  • #4
    ^ as others have said.

    If he is serious about you, then he will quit. If he isn’t, do you want to be with someone like that?

    If he won’t quit and you want to stay with him, it’s unlikey you will get a job in LE.

    Just because weed may be legal at the state level, it’s not at the federal level, and most agencies would see your Bfs use as problematic.

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      thanks, I choose my career

  • #5
    Make better choices in the people you hang around if you want to be a cop
    Since some people need to be told by notes in crayon .......Don't PM me with without prior permission. If you can't discuss the situation in the open forum ----it must not be that important

    My new word for the day is FOCUS, when someone irritates you tell them to FOCUS

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      thanks, I choose my career

  • #6
    Originally posted by jessezaibet View Post
    hello, i'm currently in college and in about one year i will graduate and i will try to became a cop..
    the problem is that i'm dating this guy and we are looking forward to move in together , but he smokes weed, he never smokes in front of me or have it when he is with me, he knows he could get me in trouble...
    my question is... how would this affect me?
    does moving together would be bad?
    You do realize that you can get charged with possession if weed is found in a vehicle registered to you...or a vehicle you're driving...or in the common area of a shared residence? Where is he going to keep his weed once you move in together? Even if he "tries" not to get you in trouble...sooner or later it might happen anyway. As a cop you'll be expected to use sound judgment. Might want to start now...

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      thanks, I choose my career

  • #7
    Not much to add that hasn't already been said. Life decisions and all. If he knows you're trying to become a police officer and won't stop smoking weed then he's not showing you much respect. The odds are against you enough as (assuming off your name) a female officer; the divorce rate for female cops married to non-cops is close to 100%. You don't need the added trouble of someone who doesn't respect what you do. Suddenly a few years in he gets half your pension and you've wasted X number of years.

    Good luck.

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