or do you find yourself more suspicious of people in general, given your line of work?
As I have posted, I occasionally date a detective. He has total access to my life. He can show up anytime day or night, has a key to my home, etc. I have absolutely nothing to hide. If he cannot come over or spend time with me due to work commitments or life commitments, that is okay, I have no problems being on my own and I do completely understand his job. But....I get grilled about my whereabouts, who I talked with, where I went, what I wore IF I did go somewhere, etc. And it is in the form of 20,000 questions, all worded very differently, but with the same basic question as the bottom line. I do not falter, because I do not lie. He is very good at his interrogation skills. I know it sounds more like a jealousy issue than anything else, but he just seems very suspicious of everything. We have talked extensively about this and he does apologize as he knows I am what I am and also who I am. I think he is suspicious more by nature.
Gets very tiring and very old. Anyone?
L
As I have posted, I occasionally date a detective. He has total access to my life. He can show up anytime day or night, has a key to my home, etc. I have absolutely nothing to hide. If he cannot come over or spend time with me due to work commitments or life commitments, that is okay, I have no problems being on my own and I do completely understand his job. But....I get grilled about my whereabouts, who I talked with, where I went, what I wore IF I did go somewhere, etc. And it is in the form of 20,000 questions, all worded very differently, but with the same basic question as the bottom line. I do not falter, because I do not lie. He is very good at his interrogation skills. I know it sounds more like a jealousy issue than anything else, but he just seems very suspicious of everything. We have talked extensively about this and he does apologize as he knows I am what I am and also who I am. I think he is suspicious more by nature.
Gets very tiring and very old. Anyone?
L
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