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I will try to keep it vague, but have the pertinent facts.
The detective is currently conducting his investigation and from what I have been told is checking with my past employers. The employer in which I am nervous about is when I worked for my older sibling's spouse while I was in high school.
While employed by them I was in a verbal dispute with my sibling. During the dispute I used a curse word as an adjective and not in anyway did I degrade my sibling, but nonetheless I was wrong with using such wording. This dispute occurred over the phone. The next day while at work my sibling's spouse threatened me with violence if I ever curse at my sibling again.
Throughout the few months preceding the incident there had been rising tensions between my self and my sibling. My care was diminishing in my work (me failing). They were pulling stunts like withholding half of my pay because I needed to save it and putting it away in an "account" that I couldn't touch at the cost of me being unable to pay bills. So the incident over the phone was the breaking point for all parties involved.
Immediately after the threats were issued I left the company never to return. We have never spoke about the incident and let time wash our memories away. When I was asked by the detective why I left so suddenly and unprofessionally I gave a synopsis of aforementioned incident. I am afraid my sibling's spouse will deny or make the incident look as if they were the ones in the right and I was the scumbag. Whereas we both were wrong in different aspects. Yes I am questioning the spouse's integrity.
With this possible difference of accounts will this hurt me significantly? If needed to be pushed witnesses were present that have the same account as I. I really hope this does not do anything to damage my relationship with my sibling since I am closer to them than anyone else in my family. I am in a very tight situation.
One of my current coworkers was one of my supervisors from a different company. He informed me he had a conversation with the detective that was in his words "quite extensive, but went well." I did not ask him what was asked because I have done my part and its all up to the detective now. With that being said I have no doubt this previously mentioned incident will be brought up.
The detective is currently conducting his investigation and from what I have been told is checking with my past employers. The employer in which I am nervous about is when I worked for my older sibling's spouse while I was in high school.
While employed by them I was in a verbal dispute with my sibling. During the dispute I used a curse word as an adjective and not in anyway did I degrade my sibling, but nonetheless I was wrong with using such wording. This dispute occurred over the phone. The next day while at work my sibling's spouse threatened me with violence if I ever curse at my sibling again.
Throughout the few months preceding the incident there had been rising tensions between my self and my sibling. My care was diminishing in my work (me failing). They were pulling stunts like withholding half of my pay because I needed to save it and putting it away in an "account" that I couldn't touch at the cost of me being unable to pay bills. So the incident over the phone was the breaking point for all parties involved.
Immediately after the threats were issued I left the company never to return. We have never spoke about the incident and let time wash our memories away. When I was asked by the detective why I left so suddenly and unprofessionally I gave a synopsis of aforementioned incident. I am afraid my sibling's spouse will deny or make the incident look as if they were the ones in the right and I was the scumbag. Whereas we both were wrong in different aspects. Yes I am questioning the spouse's integrity.
With this possible difference of accounts will this hurt me significantly? If needed to be pushed witnesses were present that have the same account as I. I really hope this does not do anything to damage my relationship with my sibling since I am closer to them than anyone else in my family. I am in a very tight situation.
One of my current coworkers was one of my supervisors from a different company. He informed me he had a conversation with the detective that was in his words "quite extensive, but went well." I did not ask him what was asked because I have done my part and its all up to the detective now. With that being said I have no doubt this previously mentioned incident will be brought up.
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