I'M SO SORRY, THIS POST ENDED ON THE LOCAL DISCUSSION GROUP FOR ILLINIOS!
I have a 55 yr old divorced recovering alcoholic, on anti-depressant meds neighbor, whom I distanced myself a year ago after erratic behavior did somethng strange tonight. I hadn't spoken to her, had minded my business since Jan 2010.
I have lights hanging around my garage door which face the street. I live at a housing complex. They are unlighted. There id nothing in the association rules to indicate I"m against any guidelines.
She rings my doorbell at 8:30 PM tonight, and in her hand were my lights. She handed them to me. She said, "here are your lights" then when I took them, she immediately turned around and walked back. I got angry. I shouted, "why did you take them down?" and she says, "because they were a nuisance" and keeps walking. I shouted at her "You are crazy!" then slammed my door.
Five minutes later, my phone rings and it is her. She says, "I took them down because there ugly, and I was going to give you until Easter but couldn't stand it anymore. And as for you calling me crazy, we'll you're the weird duck." I didn't answer the call, didn't make any response after that.
I hadn't had any contact with this woman for over a year and all of a sudden, she removes my property without my knowledge or consent. I can only imagine she used a ladder to remove my lights. She's not a housing association officer.
I plan to email the housing association with the facts, that at 8:30 PM, this woman knocked on my door and handed me my lights. Also at 8:45, she left a voicemail, which I've recorded. As there are several houses with lights and other decor, and mention that I find it unusual behavior that she would remove items on my property without consent, and at night, while there are other houses also with various decor.
Seeing as she has had a record of erratic behavior, I don't know how to deal with this. Any advise?
It's kinda scary. She's erratic and unpredictable, and the housing association officers know her well for this. Now I think she's zeroing on me.
I have a 55 yr old divorced recovering alcoholic, on anti-depressant meds neighbor, whom I distanced myself a year ago after erratic behavior did somethng strange tonight. I hadn't spoken to her, had minded my business since Jan 2010.
I have lights hanging around my garage door which face the street. I live at a housing complex. They are unlighted. There id nothing in the association rules to indicate I"m against any guidelines.
She rings my doorbell at 8:30 PM tonight, and in her hand were my lights. She handed them to me. She said, "here are your lights" then when I took them, she immediately turned around and walked back. I got angry. I shouted, "why did you take them down?" and she says, "because they were a nuisance" and keeps walking. I shouted at her "You are crazy!" then slammed my door.
Five minutes later, my phone rings and it is her. She says, "I took them down because there ugly, and I was going to give you until Easter but couldn't stand it anymore. And as for you calling me crazy, we'll you're the weird duck." I didn't answer the call, didn't make any response after that.
I hadn't had any contact with this woman for over a year and all of a sudden, she removes my property without my knowledge or consent. I can only imagine she used a ladder to remove my lights. She's not a housing association officer.
I plan to email the housing association with the facts, that at 8:30 PM, this woman knocked on my door and handed me my lights. Also at 8:45, she left a voicemail, which I've recorded. As there are several houses with lights and other decor, and mention that I find it unusual behavior that she would remove items on my property without consent, and at night, while there are other houses also with various decor.
Seeing as she has had a record of erratic behavior, I don't know how to deal with this. Any advise?
It's kinda scary. She's erratic and unpredictable, and the housing association officers know her well for this. Now I think she's zeroing on me.
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